Well, what does your wife?

Several years ago the BBC was out of a job in Delhi. I took the night train, sitting on his seat and breathed a sigh of relief as the seat in front of me was a guy talking to me. He asked where I am going, my relationship with India is part of what I'm doing? Then he asked me what your husband do? I told him that I was not even married. This question offended me. For them it was important that I'm a journalist and I was on business trip. They had only one woman in the male-dominated Indian society does not exist until a woman unless she's the daughter, wife, or sister does not.
It was not the first time someone asked me that, and not the last time. My friends told me that many of his acquaintances are often asked to know whether two be minutes old. I decided that I would ask this question on the road on the way that men do what your wife? It was an emotional decision, which did not have any scientific reasons.
But I was surprised to learn that the men I spoke to many of them did not bother to answer this question.
Mohammad Mohsin, aged 27 years old and he sheepishly said they are still unmarried. Mohsin says that in the past many people asked many questions, but no one asked the question what are his wife. ' When I asked them if they were not angry and I feel a little ashamed. He said 'I do to strengthen my business then I'll think about marriage. " Auto rickshaw pullers Sandeep Yadav said: "My wife, takes care of the earth and our cattle. ' 53-year-old Sandeep Yadav, a village in Uttar Pradesh is concerned, and in the last eight years working in Delhi. He lives in his village, his wife and my four children, three cows, a buffalo and a calf, takes care of.
Sandeep Yadav did not bother to ask my question. "You asked me a question I answered, It is a great thing. My wife, who lives in the village. There may not be any damage and injury if not why I'm angry. Manoj Singh Rathore and his 28-year-old says that marriage is not their age now. He says: "My parents always ask me when I will marry, and when I tell them I am ready to get married.
Rathore said that when people are asking women what their husbands because the Indian people 'people friendly' ones. "People just want to be friends with you. Dhruv Khosla says that they do not ask personal questions because I want people to ask me personal questions. " They are old people such questions, a new generation is different. "I have been divorced. Most of my friends and my sister are unmarried. We are often asked whether our marriage. " He further said foreigners should not question it. " I asked them who they felt that spanking. His answer was 'yes'. Jagdish Singh says that there is a question to start the conversation in question and it's not a personal question, and I will not be angry. " His wife are college students. They say that their friends and distant relatives ask them if they are married or not, but does not anyone ever asked what his wife does. They say women about their marriage because it is asked for the concept that girls should marry me. Indian people can not accept that a woman can be married. " Anubhu rule is thirty years old, an engineer by profession they are unmarried. When I asked him what his wife says that he became angry and said, "Why are you asking me this question."
But when I told them, they said, because "when you asked me if I felt bad, but I do not question the stranger. Well, my wife runs a boutique where she sells clothing is designed. " He said, adding that his "personal details in this way is not a problem but, they will not talk about it with." Often people ask me Mishra, a new and different reason to be worried. He said, 'If you do not care if the wife is successful. I am going to tell about his wife happily because they are successful. I'm proud of them. Mishra admitted that they never asked this question to be his wife, but my wife is often asked what I do.
He also said: "I think that this question is not bad. I would feel bad if it fails. And I think those questions about his wife and husband were upset at the time when they are happily married. " I sat in the subway with me the same question asked Dr. Vijay Goel, they felt very bad but then they were ready to talk. He said, "Who are you? Why are you asking me this question? Such questions can not see me. ' When I told them that I have been asked this question several times and he said: "If a man was talking to you about half an hour so they could ask such questions.